This is in no way towards someone or something personal in my life. I hear a lot from different people about how they plan to hold this grudge or someone else is holding a grudge and I tend to say the same thing to them "who gives a crap..they aren't worth it then", but with two beautiful children it tends to make me feel the later. Becoming a parent really brings some serious emotions to you. So here it is:
You only live once...make sure that grudge you are holding is really worth it.